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Stella Lu's avatar

when my Ex who is an Albanian man said: "you are less valuable ,you are just a woman ", I was shocked, it is 2021, who openly say that ? I meant I knew Chinese men have the same opinion but they dont say it openly to their girlfriends Or wives.

At that time , I remember we were just preparing dinner . He seems to be a nice guy, when going outside he even gave money to old women who was begging on the side of the road. But after he said that words a few times I knew he meant it.

Sometimes he stopped me when I was expressing my opinions , I consider that was an insult .

I never thought he was a very bad person, but I just wanted to express my observation of the impact of culture on men.

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Allan Sutherland's avatar

Interesting piece Harel. My articles about The House of Leaves and The Palace of Cubes reference Maks Velo, the Sigurimi and other issues relating to the Hoxha regime that are relevant here:

https://allansutherland.substack.com/p/house-of-leaves

https://allansutherland.substack.com/p/the-palace-of-cubes

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